Should Boys be Circumcised?

Your problem is pyschological. If they did your circumcision incorrectly and took off shaft skin with it. Then you should grow about 1/2" to 3/4" more of shaft skin, by skin expansion. If you use medical tape and pull the shaft skin forward, pushing the head inward, and tape it like that, you will allow the constant and moderate tension on the shaft skin you have to actually grow. It will be permanent, it isn't simply "stretching". The skin is the body's largest organ, and any type of skin, if you put constant and moderate tension in it, the skin cells turn from circular to eliptical, and spaces between skin cells develop. These spaces become filled up with new skin cells over time, and your shaft skin WILL loosen up. Not from "stretching" but from actually new skin cell growth. This is also how many guys have restored their foreskins, but committ to this skin expansion for over two years, they skin expand all the shaft skin over the head. It is a timely process and millions of men have done it. But most incorrect circumcisions have removed a lot of shaft skin, and the discomfort is in the lower forward side of the penis, not on the head. If you start skin expanding your shaft skin no more than 3/4" more skin grown, your discomfort will go away, your penis will have a perfectly exposed head, perfectly circumcised, but still moist and with more blood flow on the surface. Then you won't have a "botched" circumcision no more. Your sex life will improve. But full coverage of the head, that is too much, you'll run into the skin being too redundant for the thrust strokes during sex. Your problem more than likely is that some idiot Doctor, yanked all your skin through the clamp, over-doing the amount of skin through the ring, without thinking about the 1/2" more skin which is pulled into the clamp as they tighten it. Then you end up scalped with as much as 80% of the shaft skin removed with the foreskin, and the penis sticks out straight. But even guys like that over time, the skin on the shaft has grown and loosened up for a perfect streamlined shaft. I think you haven't even skin expanded your shaft skin for a few months constantly. The skin grows and loosens faster than you think too. This is the same process that is used when burn victims get ballon implants under their skin to skin expand "stretch" the skin ends towards each other. Over some time the skin grows and fills in all the missing skin, they remove the ballon implant which provides the tension on the skin. I bet you if you do this, the moistness and surface sensitivity on your member will increase enormously, since more skin is on the shaft. With it, more bloodflow too. But the actual foreskin removal to correctly expose the head, but not mess with the shaft skin, like a lot of botched circumcisions do, is the best lot. Give it time, you might want to expand some more of your shaft skin, you'll be amazed how you can correct your problem without surgery. Always remember, skin WILL grow back PERMANENTLY if you put constant and moderate tension on it. Some men have kept going and restored their foreskin completely with overhang like it was before being circumcised, with their head trapped in it. If you want to do that, go ahead, but you'll have the same skin redundancies you had with a foreskin, during sex. It's not worth restoring foreskin. But it is worth restoring shaft skin, if a lot of yours is missing from an incorrect circumcision! Try it, give it time, you don't need to put to much tension on it either. Moderate and constant tension on any skin, WILL cause it to grow! Now I don't know if you had damage to the head, if not, then your problem lies all with the skin and can be resolved over time. I said before here, there should be a law which restricts just any Doctor from doing circumcisions. Circumision should ONLY be performed by a Doctor who is an EXPERT at circumcision, understands all the different types of skin. Which types are to be kept, which types to be removed. You aren't supposed to just pull all the skin throught the clamp and tighten it. A real circumciser is supposed to know how much to pull through the clamp and that when it is tightened about an extra 1/2" will get pulled through. So it isn't much skin that should be pulled through it, then when the clamp is tightened, it pulls another 1/2" and it comes out perfectly.

But your problem is psychological not physical. Because it's not a tooth or a nose job, but improvements on the penis, and you are upset. If you knew nothing about circumcision, you'd be going at it nice on some woman now. The mind has a huge effect on sexuality also. There's a lot of correctly circumcised guys who are having a great sex life, but find out about circumcision from watching You Tube, lol, and now have erection problems, lol. Just forget about it, what you got now is what a lot of uncut guys want, so the extra skin doesn't get in the way or bunch up while inside of the vagina. It's all psychological with you. Some things lay people probably should not see, or they might take it the wrong way. But on the infant, the foreskin is stuck to the head, it cannot be retracted normally. A lot of times this causes feces and urine to get into the tip and also urine retention within the foreskin ballooned at the end. A lot of uncut guys as babies with parents who don't want it done, go through more pain than anything circumcision causes, from parents having to retract the skin to get the feces out of the tip. Those are the same guys who grow up and get more into masturbation than being able to perform during sex. You're not missing anything, you traded a foreskin for a circumcision, there is no loss, when the normal function of the penis is brought out by circumcision. The most painful part of circumcision is only with the infant, and it is when the skin has to be peeled away from the head, since it is stuck to it on the infant. That I agree is very painful when having to retract infant foreskin. But once it is freed, and the skin is clamped, the actual cutting off the foreskin is not painful, just minor discomfort. The head acclimatizes within a few days, and it heals. Then everything is fine. There's people doing just fine till they watch You Tube and start thinking they've been "violated" this is the psychological problems some men get. Trust me, you're not missing anything with your foreskin gone. Those "studies" are so one-sided and biased, that if you research who is doing them, you'll find out they're not real unbiased researchers. They're paid front people by certain Lobbies. If you had a long foreskin, redundant, infected, and pain from it tearing, you losing your erection, the skin getting torn, and also giving and getting yeast infections between you and your woman, you might hate your parents for not having you circumcised. But now you're hating your parents for circumcising you. You're not missing anything, you have the best lot being circumcised as a baby. The excuses which were invented to support circumcision throughout the ages, was so lay people would get a simple answer. Lay people are lay people because they don't want to learn anything. If the experts told the whole story they would say that: 'circumcision performed to normalize the penis into it's correct functional state for sexual function, penetration into the vagina, elimination of HPV, Smegma, Urine Retention, Tyson's Cells, Tyson's Cells, STDs' and Blood Borne Pathogens and Micro-Trauma from the skin teaing and letting vaginal microbes into the bloodstream'. You don't get all those maladies when you're circumcised. That is why 130 million males are circumcised in America alone. That is also why they would just state simple answers to lay people and say it is to "prevent masturbation" or later, hygiene, or later this or that. If they just told the public the important reasons for circumcision, then maybe people wouldn't get confused so easily about circumcision. Don't believe those "studies". You turned out ok, right? Until maybe you started watching Circumcision on You Tube, lol. If you had your foreskin now you'd want it removed when you start to work on the ladies, trust me on that. I am not ignorant about that, I had my foreskin until I was 18, and I had to get rid of it in order to get into the vagina well, and not have a cut up, torn foreskin, with infections and bleeding everytime, as well as spreading infections and sickness. Circumcision is like a transformation into a "tool", it is way better. I was the opposite of you, I hated my parents for not circumcising me as a baby. But it's ok, they wanted to get me circumcised, but someone said "it's not necessary" so I had to put up with all I did as teenager. I hope this helps you what I am saying. Provided your circumcision was done right, you have the best lot being circumcised as a baby.