The New York Times: Abortion Advocates Discover Adoption

We've always said "pro-choice" is code for "pro-abortion," because the other side only pushes that 1 of the 3 choices of mothers in crisis pregnancies.

On June 18 The New York Times reported on a major concession made by the other side, the "emergence of a generation of women's advocates who want to remedy" the pro-abort adoption gap....

It remains to be seen whether this actually comes to pass or is just a PR move by desperate ideologues not only losing in the polls now but also losing their previously presumed position as spokespersons for women.

Pro-aborts promoting adoption would be one "common ground" measure I'd support. The difference between them and us being, of course, our side offers financial and legal assistance toward that end, while their side will only supply a piece of paper with the name of a pro-abortion adoption agency.

But if the bottom line is more babies saved, that would be good.

Promoting adoption also forces pro-aborts to mentally go places they have always refused to go. It is to agree with a pro-life platform plank, to delve into our territory, It is to concede abortion isn't necessarily the best option for mothers in crisis pregnancies. It is to promote life over death. It is to concede the "pregnancy" is a life in the 1st place. It is to accept that some mothers are willing to sacrifice their interests and to accept responsibility for the the life they have created, which is to admit abortion is self-serving and irresponsible.

The NYT piece was quite interesting. A few highlights:

What if groups that demanded reproductive choices for women actually offered them?...

The idea is simple. It is about choice. Not choice as a euphemism for the right to have an abortion, but choice in the true sense of the word: options, informed consent and support for women trying to figure out what to do with an unwanted pregnancy....

(In other words, pro-aborts do not provide totally informed consent nor provide holistic support?)

The thinking is that all the clinics' clients, whether they seem uneasy about abortion or not, should have a clear understanding of how adoption works, rather than just be handed a list of references - a list that essentially says, adoption is fine, but it's not our thing.

To many who have labored for abortion rights, it might seem at first blush that abortion clinics need adoption specialists the way fish need bicycles - that it represents an infiltration of the opposition....

Corinna Lohser... worked at an abortion clinic in Cleveland years ago... [and now] works for Spence-Chapin Adoption Services, a NY adoption agency that supports abortion rights, and has come to regret the lack of information she had been able to provide women in Cleveland....

As Ms. [Christina] Page put it: "It's like you've come to this g>Italian restaurant - do you really want the waiter saying, 'There's this great German place down the block, not sure how much you know about it, but you might like it'?"...

After Ms. Palin's recent "mama grizzlies" speech, pundits focused more on whether she could call herself a feminist than on addressing her critiques of the abortion-rights message. Feminist groups, she said, want to tell women: "You're not capable of doing both. You can't give your child life and still pursue career and education."

If Ms. Palin feels confident lobbing that point it's because the right has kept old-line feminists so busy protecting abortion rights that they have less energy to focus on issues like adoption or, for that matter, quality child care for women who want to parent. The Adoption Access Network suggests recognition of one weak spot....

Note that it's our fault pro-aborts haven't focused on adoption heretofore.

gma's picture

sex education is to cover everything from avoiding sexually transmitted diseases ( abstinence , condoms ), to avoiding unwanted pregnancies (abstinence, contraception) all the way to discuss options to deal unwanted children ( adoption , abortion in first trimester) and woman 's rights to survive when taking their pregnancy to full term means a certain death (late term abortions that that threaten the life of the mother ).

It is the anti-abortion side that has polarized this debate by defining everything as killing babies even when we are talking about a lump of cells without brain cells in the first trimester.

Devils Advocate's picture

When my girlfriend and I were 15 and 17 respectively, her high school provided her with a book that said that a 9-week gestation fetus is just a "clump of cells" and that it is better to have an abortion at 12 weeks than 9 weeks because its safer: the doctor is more likely to "get everything".

The following links aren't gross; they are images of living fetuses.

9 weeks: http://www.ehd.org/movies.php?mov_id=52
12 weeks: http://www.ehd.org/movies.php?mov_id=61

When I went to college a year later and saw plasticized fetuses at each week of gestation, and realized that I had been LIED to and made the decision to kill my child based on that lie, it made me a HUGE believer in INFORMED consent.

In the subsequent 17 years, I've paid close attention - it has not been the pro-lifers feeding women lies, preventing them from seeing ultrasounds so they can really know what is going on, and trying to stop clinics from providing accurate info about fetal development.

cd67's picture

gma, like so many have been misled into believing a first trimester baby is a blob of tissue. By seven weeks a child has a beating heart. I know this first hand because when I was first pregnant I had some spotting and rushed to my OB. He used a vaginal ultrasound and I could see my baby in the ultrasound, perfectly formed but with no beating heart. Because the Dr. could not see the heart beating he knew that I had miscarried.
When I was pregnant a second time I went to my OB at eight weeks (commn practive) and could hear my son 's heart beat with a small doppler device the Dr. placed on my belly.
It has been demonstrated that a baby as young as this will pull away with tiny hands and feet from an instrument (amnioneedle...). This demonstrates a functioning nervous system (brain). Abortion is the deliberate taking of a human life. The polarization stems from the fact that it is a black and white issue-- are you for life or death -- no in between.

Submariner's picture

I have never heard anyone says abortion does end life. What does it serve to oversimplify this issue?

The value being put on material life betrays a superficial view of life in general. The traits being extolled as life here exist in worms. But what makes life of spiritual value has nothing to do with this crude matter, but the culmination of our capacity to sense, know and express ourselves and others.

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