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Marriage Counselor Sheila Loven Convinced Couple to Divorce, Had Sex with the Husband
A marriage counselor in Texas is on trial for allegedly using a couple’s therapy sessions to convince the husband to have sex with her. She is being charged with sexual assault.
Sheila Loven, 45, was a counselor for an Arlington couple who was having marital difficulties. After advising them to begin attending counseling sessions separately, she and the husband began having sex.
Ultimately she convinced the husband it was best to get a divorce, what with them sleeping together and all.
Once the couple started talking about their separate therapy sessions, they realized what had happened. They decided to continue with their marriage.
The counselor then allegedly harassed them with calls and texts, which prompted the couple to contact police. Authorities informed them that what she had done was considered sexual assault. They filed a charge against her.
Chief Prosecutor Betty Arvin said, “They didn’t go running to the police yelling that he was sexually assaulted. They didn’t know. Most people don’t know.”
“Not only was what Loven was doing immoral and unethical, it was illegal.”
Loven’s attorney said the relationship was real and came from romance. He claims that there was no emotional coercion.
“It had all the elements of any other romantic relationship. They went out at nightclubs and dinner, and they spent almost every night together. What you will not see in this case is any evidence of manipulation,” attorney Adam Burny said.
But the other side is arguing that there was manipulation on Loven’s end, which mainly occurred when she started seeing the couple separately. She used the opportunity to “collect their secrets” and used these secrets to create problems in the marriage.
She then told the wife to get a divorce and asked the husband on a date, leading to them eventually having sex.
Though the husband stopped going to the sessions, the wife still continued.
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The couple made amends with each other once they realized the manipulation was occurring.
“She was the ultimate inside trader,” Arvin said. “She got information about their lives that they had never shared with anyone and she used it, she twisted it for her own sick reasons.”
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Taken from "Sex Between
Taken from "Sex Between Therapists and Clients".
Although the prohibition against sex with patients reaches back beyond Freud, beyond the Hippocratic Oath, and at least as far as the code of the Nigerian Healing Arts, it was only with systematic research that began in the 1950s that the profession began to understand the depth, pervasiveness, and persistence of the harm that can result when therapists abuse their license, role, power, and trust.
Partly as a result of this increasing understanding of the consequent harm, it came to be recognized as more than a violation of professional or clinical ethics, of licensing laws, and of the civil laws (i.e., patients can sue offending therapists for malpractice in the civil courts). An increasing number of states have criminalized therapist-client sex, some classifying it as a felony. As one court held in reviewing the constitutionality of criminalizing therapist-client sex concluded:
the state has a legitimate interest not only in protecting persons undergoing psychotherapy from being sexually exploited by the treating therapist but also in regulating and maintaining the integrity of the mental health profession. It is equally obvious to us that the legislative decision to criminally proscribe a psychotherapist's knowing infliction of sexual penetration on a psychotherapy client is reasonably related to these legitimate governmental interests. . . . [It] therefore comports with due process of law.
Whether because of increasing recognition of ways in which sex with a therapist can harm a client, increasing legal penalties, or other factors, studies suggest that fewer and fewer therapists are sexually abusing their patients. The 8 national studies published in peer-reviewed journals that are summarized in Table 1 draw on anonymous self-reports from 5,148 therapists. Psychiatry, psychology, and social work each provide data in at least two independent studies conducted in separate years, allowing statistical analysis of possible trends. When all factors are taken into account in statistical analysis, there is a significant gender effect, which was discussed in a previous section. Interestingly, there are no significant differences among psychiatrists, psychologists, and social workers in self-reports of engaging in sex with clients. [Footnote: The apparent professional differences in Table 1 are, the statistical analysis suggests, the result of a confounding correlation between two variables: "profession" and "year of study." A statistical analysis incorporating the data and variables of all studies allowed comparative evaluation of how much predictive power each variable (i.e., profession and year of study) had after the variance accounted for by the other variable was subtracted. Year of study possessed significantly more predictive power after effects due to profession had been accounted for than the predictive power of profession after effects due to year had been taken into account. When the predictive power of year of study is accounted for, there are no significant differences among the professions.]
The effect due to year of study is statistically significant: There is about a 10% drop in the self-reports of therapist-client sex each year. (This does not, of course, mean that there will be no self-reports of therapist-client sex after 10 years; each year the drop is only 10% of the prior year's level.)
Research suggesting that the rate of therapists sexually abusing their clients may be declining is encouraging but it is far from enough. The mental health professions have made a modest beginning in overcoming the self-protective guild orientation, the vulnerability to self-idealization, the difficulty acknowledging and taking responsibility for reprehensible behavior, the conspiracy of silence, the impulse to the tendency to disbelieve or blame clients who appear to have suffered harm because of a therapist's unethical behavior, the habit of seeing causes and sources of problems as external to the profession, and other less-than-perfect traits of therapists that have made it hard to address issues of therapist-client sex effectively.
The time is overdue for the mental health professions to put an end to the "quintessence of sex-biased practice," in the words of Jean Holroyd, that puts female clients, both minor and adult, at far greater risk than male clients for damaging sexual exploitation by a therapist. Adults and children who are hurting, confused, vulnerable, sometimes desperate, who come for help and place their trust in therapists deserve more than to be used to gratify therapists' sexual impulses.
To help others who come to them with their problems, the mental health professions must first take care of their own problem of sexually exploitive therapists.
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It takes two to tango...
It takes two to tango... Classy. A world full of people like this is why I'm delibate...
Lawrence v Texas would seem
Lawrence v Texas would seem to suggest that the government is supposed to keep out of people's bedrooms.
What about republicans
What about republicans engaging in abortion, gay rights, forcing women to have transvaginal procedures? HUH?????? Republicans ARE part of the government!
What about it, huh?
I don't know. Why ask me?
I don't know. Why ask me? Are you under the impression that I have some sort of loyalty to the Republican Party, or authority to speak for that party?
Texas Penal Code, Sec.
Texas Penal Code, Sec. 22.011.(a) creates the offence of sexual assault. It reads: (a) A person commits an offense if the person: (1) intentionally or knowingly:
(A) causes the penetration of the anus or sexual organ of another person by any means, without that person's consent.
The prosecution will argue that due to the coercive nature of the transference phenomenon & the financial contract which exists between them, a patient cannot " legally consent" to having sexual contact with his psychiatric professional. Consent by the complainant is a not a defense for a medical professional to violate Texas law, but I'm sure Lovin's attorney will advise her to plead out, rather than face a jury.
Only a few States have statutes that specifically address criminal sexual misconduct between doctors & patients. Most of the time this issue is a civil matter. I do not believe in allowing the AMA to police it's own. Doctors should be held criminally liable for their acts like those in any other profession.
Thank you for your - er -
Thank you for your - er - *penetrating* insights.
Sleeping with your patients
Sleeping with your patients is a pretty serious violation of professional ethics - unless you're a sexual surrogate or prostitute. Working at cross purposes to the very reason the couple sought you out for therapy is also a pretty huge violation. Looks like the only guys she's going to be sleeping with now are Texas prison guards.
@ cityboy "Sleeping with your
@ cityboy
"Sleeping with your patients is a pretty serious violation"
I don't expect either of them got much sleep.
This really doesn't seem like
This really doesn't seem like anything you'd go to jail for, and I doubt the sexual assault charge will hold up at all. Though this is Texas, so who knows. She probably won't be working as a marriage counselor ever again though.
You got me with that one.
You got me with that one. It's (likely) not illegal, but as serious a breach of professional ethics such as that is likely going to get her license suspended by the overseeing organization and she likely won't be allowed to practice again.
Uh! wrong again!! Do you even
Uh! wrong again!! Do you even bother to google anything?????