With No God, Where do Atheists Turn in Times of Crisis?

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By Blair Scott

Instead of begging an imaginary being for strength in a crisis, I reach out to others or rely upon myself. During times of crisis I do not plead, “God please help me!” or “God give me the strength!” I simply tell myself that I can do it or that I can make it through it. Often I reflect on the fact that I’ve been in worse situations and fared just fine. I can also turn to my family and friends for help and advice. And in extreme cases I rely on the assistance of trained professionals, such as firemen, police officers, medical doctors, etc.

I analyze each situation logically instead of emotionally. I figure out the best way to get out of the crisis. I walk into a hazardous and dangerous situation, take charge of it, and think it through. I take control of all the assets available to me, solve the situation, and get myself out of danger. I have fought fires, chased criminals and been in some desperate situations. Each time I was able to gather my own inner strengths and battle the situation head-on.

That is not to say that I am not emotional or that I do not react emotionally. It is hard not to react emotionally since our biology evolved to do such. Our emotions help us survive. I have seen lots of blood and damaged bodies in my time and I have never reacted emotionally. My training took over and I did what I had to do. When my daughter got hurt, it was different – my biological instincts overrode my training and I freaked out. It took me some time to come down, react logically, and get my act together in order to get her to help. One thing I never did during that time was pray to a god or ask for help from a supernatural being. I did it on my own and got my daughter to the science of medicine, not the pseudoscience of church.

Another thing that helps me get through situations like that is my own body with the chemical reactions and processes that take place inside it. Adrenaline will do wonders in an emergency!

I also seek help from people and things that can really help me. I do not seek help from imaginary beings and invisible friends that theists give credit to for doing something themselves. I find strength and help from some of the following:

  • My children, family, and friends
  • Music
  • Laughter
  • Adrenaline (Yes – I am an adrenaline junkie!)

Prayer and gods do not cure our diseases or solve problems during times of crisis. Where prayer and faith help is by calming the fears people have because prayer acts as a form of meditation and can have a therapeutic influence (even a placebo effect). Prayer and faith may give people the courage and emotional strength to continue, but they do not solve the problems that people face.

We, as human beings, solve those problems ourselves. Imaginary beings do not give us the answers. We come up with them. Why do theists give their gods credit for their own actions? Why do theists deny themselves the credit they deserve for being human beings with the ability to think on a higher level? Give yourself credit where credit is due.

I do not know how many times I have heard theists say to people suffering from clinical depression, “Pray to god, and he will help you.” God and prayer do not cure clinical depression. Clinical depression is a chemical imbalance in the brain that prayer cannot cure.

If you are a theist and have ever told someone to pray to get rid of his or her depression, you owe that person an apology. In addition, you should advise that person to seek medical help for their condition. When Pat Robertson tells people that they have to take mental health medication because their faith is not strong enough or Tom Cruise lambasts against mental health medication because his Scientology beliefs are medically ignorant, those ideas cause harm and additional suffering to those that believe them.

Often we find this argument being used in the “there are no atheists in foxholes” statement. There are atheists in foxholes. I served in the Navy for almost ten years and encountered several life-threatening situations. Not once did I pray to a god to get me through the crisis.

If anything, I would aver that there are no theists in foxholes. When we are in the heat of battle, our training and experience take over and we do our jobs. It is not until after the battle is over, when we have a time to reflect upon what happened, and upon our morality, the theists begin to thank their gods and prayer.

When someone chucks a grenade into your foxhole you do not pray that god gets rid of it: you grab it and chuck it back out. You may pray latter if you are a theist – but when your life was in danger you relied on your training and your instincts – you saved yourself.

Talking to fellow sailors and soldiers, I have learned one thing about god during a crisis: people forget about him. During a battle or major crisis, people forget about god most of the time. They attack the situation head-on and either save themselves or dig themselves into a deeper hole or cause their own death. Only afterwards, do people start reflecting on the situation and thank a god for saving them. God did not save them – their quick action and ability to think during a crisis saved them.

My father served in Vietnam. Vietnam made him realize that there was no god and he became an atheist in the foxhole. The foxhole made him an atheist.

Several friends of mine served time during war and each of them found strength in their atheism instead of finding a god in their foxhole. War to him or her was proof that there was no god.

One of the things that I have noticed during times of major crisis is that the hyper-religious often served as a hindrance to getting the job done and saving our butts. The hyper-religious would start to pray and cower to their god while the non-religious or the lightly religious would accomplish the mission or objective.

Often after a major catastrophe, we hear people say, “I had a guardian angel watching over me” or “God saved me from dying.” That is nice that they think their god saved them from death – but what about the other people that died. Did they not pray hard enough? Did their god not listen or were they not worthy? And why did their god put them in that situation in the first place?

When engaging in a protest in Tennessee a woman approached me and told me god cured her cancer. I told her it was amazing that her cancer went away with prayer only and without any medical doctors, drugs, chemotherapy, etc. Of course then she admitted that she went through all that. But her god got the credit: not the medical science. She droned on about how god helped her through her crisis and how thankful she was to her god for getting her through and curing her. I asked her if she thanked her god for giving her cancer in the first place. Deer in headlights look followed and she left without answering my question. I guess she had not thought of that before.

When you hear about people that were praying to a god during a time of crisis it is important to pay attention to their story. Often you will find that those that were actively praying during a crisis were in a stagnant mode. They were hiding under a desk (as we witnessed at Columbine) or were hiding in a basement or bathroom (such as in tornado activity) or were doing something else that left them inactive during the crisis. Those that were taking action talk about thanking their god after-the-fact. The atheists, on the other hand, thank the firefighters, police officers, rescuers, medical doctors, etc.

The last decade of my life has found me in several crises. In each of these cases, I turned to my family, my friends, and myself for the strength to tackle each situation. Together with my family and friends we pulled through each crisis without any help from imaginary beings. We came out of each crisis stronger and closer than ever before.

To our theist friends, the next time a fireman pulls you out of a burning building, thank him – not your god. The next time a doctor cures your ailment, thank her – not your god. Give credit where credit is due.

maria39i's picture

This is really a hard question. I think most atheists believe that when you die everything just goes dark and there is nothing to go to. So im sure they must turn to their families and other loved ones.

ruthygrl22i's picture

I think they will all turn to god in one way or another.

suzzygrl4's picture

Amen Brother Atheist! You've explained it very well; I completely agree. There truly are people out there who think if you don't believe God you are completely lost. Your not lost, you use what you have. Life is a scary ride, NOBODY knows whats really going on but I'd rather ride this roller coaster with my eyes open then trust the blind guy next to me.

heather33e's picture

I think if they dont believe in god they must turn to their families. Most will turn to god.

maryba23z's picture

This is a very interesting and hard question I believe. I think it will vary from one person to another. I think many will turn to family.

lauren23x's picture

I think everyone will turn to god when the times get hard enough. I think it is human nature. I think there is no where else to turn.

amywills4's picture

God is universal. One way or another you will submit to him. Just look at a beautiful sunset and you will know that there is a god. Or go to youtube and watch the peoples videos about there visits to hell. Why would they take there time to make those videos?

Old Ogre's picture

Oh, and before you all go jumping down my neck I would like the chance to say that what @ jodantec posted was one of the most beautifully worded and useful things too me I have read in a long, long time. I am sure I have read that somewhere before but I honestly cannot remember where.

"Those who hammer their guns into plows will plow for those who do not." ~ Thomas Jefferson ~ A mis-quote? Well worth checking out :-)

Airdale-J's picture

Excellent column. The problem theist have with atheism is that theist equate religion with morality, visa vie, no theism no morality. The fact is that religion is not a requirement for morality. Religion is man-made "Force" and Morality is universal "Power". A “Force” of any kind requires a “Counter-Force” to exist and we see this in the disagreements, wall building and hatred initiated over different religious beliefs with some religions being worse than others.

A “Power” stands alone in the universe and requires nothing more than itself to exist. Individual responsibility is at the core of atheism and individual responsibility and morality are based on power.

All creatures are born with everything they need to survive. The Theist trades his self-sustaining energy for peace of mind in knowing that when something goes wrong someone or something else is responsible. During the course of human development want-to-be leaders used the reluctance of man to accept responsibility and established rules that evolved into strong beliefs. Folk lore kicked in and Religion was born and the Leaders became wealthy selling people what they already possessed.

Atheists are only a very small fraction of the population because the use of internal power requires a highly developed degree of consciousness, which far exceeds the norm for the general population. A degree where fact and fiction can’t co-exist and truth or personal power is permitted to mushroom up to support and sustain the person. For the true atheist either you use your intrinsic power and succeed or you perish because they will not accept failure as the will of God. There is nobody to blame or to be praise but themselves and the intrinsic universal energy that sustains them.

I too have had several of those “guardian angel” moments. Theist would say that this was the hand of God, yet I know their God is my intrinsic power that is unwilling to be defeated at this moment in time. So as Andy B. commented a few minutes ago, “atheists turn to the same thing theist turn to. Only the theists just don’t know it.” .

Airdale

eojtus's picture

Along with upon "atheism = no morality/ no absolutes", theists also operate upon "atheism = no ultimate purpose/no justice/no control" and "atheism = no extraordinary help/intervention".

("Atheism = no hope/no happiness after death" operates as well, but I'll omit that obvious "equals" here.)

I agree that theism absolves the individual of personal responsibility to determine "right and wrong" (or, rather gives the illusion of absolving, since it is, after all, the individual who, even if passively, chooses to believe a "faith" and therefore chooses its set of morals as "the one I think is correct"); and, I agree that theism, by enabling an individual to exercise absolute certainty and self-righteousness in matters of "right and wrong", thereby excuses him from any blame for significant consequences ("God says it's wrong and God says to stone her to death, so it's out of my hands") . But, these other two "equals" shouldn't be underestimated for motivating theists as powerfully as does the first "equals".

For lack of a more precise and succinct label, I've called myself "agnostic" for the past eleven years. Toward specific text-based versions of deity such as "YAHowah", "Iesus" or "Allah", I am "atheistic". However, I spent twenty adult years as a sincere Bible-literalist Christian. During those twenty years, I observed and experienced all three "equals" that I listed above.

Through life's universal-though-varied hardships and struggles, the questions, "why did this happen?" and "when will justice be served?" are constant. The theist self-generates capacity to both endure and to accept the total loss caused by the tornado, the child born with severe chromosomal defects, the father-to-be killed by a drunk driver, the babies burned to death in a house fire, the daughter raped and killed by a never-apprehended perpetrator,by belief that "God has a reason, a purpose, and a plan for what is otherwise senseless, needless, and unjust." Most people I've met cannot live peacefully holding the idea that a tragedy, especially involving someone they know or value, is probably random, finally inexplicable, and ultimately pointless, or that, say, a serial pedophile rapist-killer may not ultimately be punished. For sanity, they need a god-at-the-controls.

Similarly, most people cannot handle life thinking that no super-powerful daddy-of-the-cosmos is available to intervene nor assist them and those whom they value in hardships and struggles. The thought of some burdens being beyond the power of anyone to help with is apparently overwhelming and near-disabling to most. For sanity, they need a god-with-a-life-preserver-and-energy-drinks.

Most people I've met aren't equipped with the psychological capabilities to accept their existence without a "personal God" or even without the certainty of a "Cosmic Clock Maker". Human psyche having the needs it has, I kinda suspect those o' us who have objectively weighed the supernatural/spiritual and measured it "zero" (excluding those who are non-believers merely because they before-the-fact refuse the demands the existence of any deity would potentially place upon them) have been, are, and will always be humanity's outliers.

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