Mother: Marijuana Helps Son Cope with Severe OCD
(ABC News) Last year, 12-year-old Ryan Mendoza’s obsessive compulsive disorder became so bad, his mother said, that his triggers — the wind and spotting the number “6″ — would drive him to have crippling and violent meltdowns.
When Ryan Mendoza first was diagnosed with pediatric autoimmune neuropsychiatric disorder associated with streptococcal infections, or PANDAS, a rare auto-immune disorder that causes severe OCD, Judy Mendoza never imagined she would rely on medicinal marijuana for her son’s well-being.
Shortly after Ryan’s first dose of medical marijuana, the boy already was showing improvement, his mother wrote on her Web site, M-Squared, which stands for Mama to Mama. He had been refusing to go to the beach for more than a year, terrified a tsunami would hit, Mendoza wrote. But the day after he took the medicinal marijuana for the first time, the family went to the beach and, like any ordinary 12-year-old, Ryan allowed his family to bury him up to his face in sand, his mother wrote.
This story will be featured on tonight’s ABC news program, “20/20” Friday at 10 p.m. ET.
Mieko Hester-Perez is featured on the report. She is the mother we interviewed regarding her use of medical marijuana to treat her son’s severe autism. Dr. Lester Grinspoon also contributes; he’s the acknowledged pioneer of medical marijuana from Harvard who found success treating his son’s leukemia chemotherapy symptoms with cannabis, also a frequent guest on our show.
I have to chuckle when I read stories like these describing the use of this “controversial” medicine that hasn’t been subject to the “gold standard” double-blind placebo-controlled studies by the FDA. (You know, those studies that brought us such safe and effective drugs as thalidomide, fen phen, and Vioxx.) Cannabis has been used medicinally for over 5,000 years and never caused a single overdose death, yet it is a controversial scary treatment for kids compared to the Ritalin and other heavy pharmaceuticals with nasty side effects that we regularly push on these kids. Because, you know, the FDA has tested them.
Well, most of them. I mean, drugs get tested on adults regularly, but a large portion of them are never tested on children, even though doctors are regularly prescribing them to children. But don’t take my word for it; ask the FDA:
[M]ost marketed products that are mostly used in adults have not been studied in children—even though they may be used by doctors to treat children.
There has been improvement in this area in regard to prescription drugs. As of 2008, an estimated 50 to 60 percent of prescription drugs used to treat children have been studied in some part of the pediatric population.
Or if you’re a glass-half-empty reader, you might interpret that as “we don’t really know what the hell these drugs will do to children 40 to 50 percent of the time.” But God forbid we give those kids a cannabis cookie!

I saw the show with all the ranting and raving and crying (by a 12 year old) with the Mother following the child around the house dosing him with drugs .
Spoiled rich kid, did you see the house they live in?
One can easliy tell the child sits in front of the TV or plays video games most of the time.
I would bet the Mother never asks the child to perform any chores or has given him responsibilities and required him to perform them.
instead of help him.
Instead of focusing on helping him cope and regulate his own self she's just allowing him to be lazy and rely on a drug to do it.
I've watched many Obsessed on A&E and it's a great show, but the don't just drug people and are done. They actually help people to live with their issues and even explain away their thoughts as irrational and help them realize it. They help them get better.
This mother isn't helping her son get better unless the MJ is going to help him stop having OCD after a while. But if he has to use it continuously then she's not helping him at all.
I see this as irresponsible and terrible parenting . Actually it's more like "the road to hell was paved with good intentions."
People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid. - Soren Aabye Kierkegaard (1813-1855)
totally agree with the mother . She has tried all types of medicine and therapy and she still uses Western medicine but he has improved so much using a very little marijuana . She mixes it in his food and juice and he chews it or swallows it. This is a child who has OCD so severely he has no friends, no social life, is ostracized in school . It was so tragic to watch even on the program. He wants to die. He has been hospitalized and this was one of the last things she decided to try after extensive research , It is heartbreaking but he is a different child. He is not totally cured nor will he be but he can actually do school work and concentrate enough to actually not disturb the other children with his outlandish behavior. This child would be institutionalized if not for the marijuana. My heart ached for this child and his mother. She is a good mother and will go to any product that gives her son some relief. She hopes that he will be able to hold a job , get an education and have somewhat of a normal existence and I would do the same if my child was as tortured as this kid.
http://www.hulu.com/watch/166380/abc-2020-fri-jul-23-2010 #s-p1-so-i0
There.
Opinion didn't change . Single moms seem to just give up on their children .
No matter what disorder (mental or physical) a child has they know how to control their parents and get what they want. The reason he could be so terrible is because she's not being a good parent.
And I'm talking about actually setting up rules, making goals, having consistency....you can't just toss up your hands and quit and you can't state that it's all the disorder's fault. You have to try and she didn't try. She allowed other people to try. She doesn't do much parenting .
Now when he's acting up...oh just take this. Do you know what they tell people NOT to do with their children...drug them. What is she doing with hers? Drugging him.
This isn't helping him cope. This is teaching him to medicate himself and maybe he'll feel better and when he doesn't feel good then that's not normal. So don't deal with it, don't try to sooth yourself, just drug yourself then you'll feel better again.
OCD is part of her child. That's something that'll never, ever, ever go away. you can't cure OCD no matter what you take. He has to learn to live with it. Medicating is not living...it's burying and soon it'll just come back and bite you in the rear.
People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid. - Soren Aabye Kierkegaard (1813-1855)
I will not judge them. We don't know the whole story and unless and until you have children and have a terrible mental illness I would give them a pass. I am 61 and have seen many types of parenting in my lifetime so far and most parents as far as I am concerned are good parents and when they have had a child with severe problems it is their judgment call to try everything. We have no idea what this woman has gone through. Single parenting has nothing to do with it in my opinion.
about not judging unless you walk in their shoes....is your way of judging those that don't think like you. Statements like that should only be said to friends and those that are your children . Using it outside those situations makes you the one judging as well.
I know plenty of single parents. I've study, watched..done lots of things. I've worked with kids that have way worse disorders than this kid in the video . I know what good parenting is and I'm not going to sit by and have others tell me that I don't know enough to give an opinion. If she didn't want to be judged she shouldn't have gone on 20/20 to share her story.
People with disorders have to learn to live with them no matter the strength of their disorder. You do not just drug them and be happy that now you have peace. Not teaching a child to cope with what they have to deal with in their head is liken to pulling a child out of every single confrontation their entire elementary school life only to cause more problems when you don't help them in Middle School. She isn't going to be around his entire life. This way of coping isn't going to help him when she's dead.
All I heard, when she was talking, was that she needed to be saved from his problems. Why was their no scenes him playing with other children if the pot is helping him cope better?
With Cancer it's about the pain. I understand using it for that. That's something you can't just cope through. But with disorders I think it's a terrible idea. It's babying your child telling them it's best to just medicate yourself so that you don't bother other people.
People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid. - Soren Aabye Kierkegaard (1813-1855)
I don't know you only by your words and you have every right to believe in what you say as do I. Enough said. You seem to be the one judging single parents, this woman , her techniques. One must look to their own words and decide themselves what is best for them to believe or fight for.
affect everyone, not just her. He grows up and goes into the world and if she didn't do a good enough job he'll rely on the government to help him and others. Meaning she created someone that wants a crutch and expects to be helped instead of helping himself.
She should encourage him to fight for his mind...a battle he's losing no matter how much pot helps him cope for a span of moments.
People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid. - Soren Aabye Kierkegaard (1813-1855)
It is obvious that your extreme anti-marijuanna bias has prevented you from engaging with the scientific literature.Your credibility evaporated when you started attacking the entire category of single mothers, and you clearly know nothing of therapeutic techniques, many of which rely upon an integration of cognitive strategies in combination with psychiatric medication. To think that the treatment of psychiatric conditions , many of which are severely debilitating, should be considered ineffective and lazy if the treatment involves drugs reveals your complete lack of engagement with the health literature. Furthermore, marijuanna may very well be one of the safest drugs on the planet, certainly with fewer side-effects than modern psychiatrics. Please educate yourself.
it is a crutch. He has OCD. It is a treatable disorder with constant work. Giving him a crutch means he'll never learn to cope. Meaning she is a bad parent.
You cannot point to me hating on Pot. Your over sensitive nature to me saying pot cannot solve this problem is worse. Pot cannot solve this problem and you know it.
This drug doesn't do much but allow him to have peace for a moment. Meaning he has to smoke it to feel it. It's not like it cures him. It's not like he has cancer and he's starving off the nausea. He's not doing anything but drinking away a problem that's still there when he's done drinking.
May be isn't good enough. Excessive use is not good for you just like excessive use of anything is not good.
And I did not hate on single mothers. Get over yourself.
People demand freedom of speech to make up for the freedom of thought which they avoid. - Soren Aabye Kierkegaard (1813-1855)