Is Spanking an Acceptable Form of Discipline?

Is Spanking an Acceptable Form of Discipline?

You have probably heard the expression, "Spare the rod, spoil the child." Do you agree with it? Perhaps you were spanked as a kid. Was it appropriate? Some people see spanking as an outdated method of punishment or even child abuse, while others view a swat on the bottom as a parent's prerogative. Where do we draw the line when it comes to disciplining our children?

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Other Bad Ideas Happened For a Long Time Too

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This is such a goofy argument; I hardly know where to begin. The equation of how long a practice has been in use with the inherent wisdom of said practice is ludicrous.

Here are a few other “disciplinary methods” that have gone on for “Several thousands of years, certainly.” Are these good ideas?

-    Crucifixion. Made famous a couple thousand years ago, but practiced for at least seven centuries before that, and is still (albeit rarely) occasionally used in modern times.
-    Genital Mutilation. Practiced for all kinds of, uh, “reasons,” including punishment.
-    Stoning. The world’s oldest form of execution. Nothing brings a community together like a group killing.

I won’t bother detailing Slavery, Rape, Ritual Sacrifice, or any of the other horrible things that have been practiced for long periods of time. I could go on and on about ways that children (and adults) have been “disciplined” that seem, in retrospect, to be violent and dangerous. I don’t want to presume, but my guess would be that John Rosemond doesn’t think that any of the practices I’ve listed above are good ideas, even though they were endorsed by a majority of people in many diverse societies. For a long time.

It doesn’t matter how long a damaging practice has been done. It doesn’t make it a good idea.

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