Should Marriage for Same Sex Couples be Legal?

Should Marriage for Same Sex Couples be Legal?

The tide of marriage for same-sex couples has ebbed and flowed over the last decade with no end in sight. Because marriage sits squarely at the intersection of religion, law and society, the discussion around same-sex couples’ inclusion into the institution of marriage has been one of the most complex and hotly contested topics in America.

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  • tripleayex
    What are you even getting at?

    Ad hominum is no effective way to argue. Who is to what the "homosexual lifestyle" is? All credibility is lost in that statement. And how can one say that homosexuality isn't "normal"? Attacking homosexuals and bisexuals because of your differing political beliefs has absolutely nothing to do with the core issue. Not every gay couple has an agenda to over run the government. Believe it or not, some homosexuals want to get married because they love each other, just like "normal" heterosexual couples.

    - tripleayexUS February 8, 2009 7:31PM

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    • Babaroni
      Yes, and because

      Yes, because we love each other. And because we want to be able to protect our children with ALL the same rights of marriage with which straight people are able to to protect their children. These are CIVIL rights, attached to CIVIL marriage, and were created by society as a safety-net available to citizens of this nation in exchange for making commitments to care for one's spouse and children, thereby relieving society of some of the risk it faces.

      Many of the rights and benefits of marriage are specifically for the benefit and protection of children, and many gay families DO have children. Denial of basic civil rights to such families is a punishment to the children of gay parents simply because of who their parents are. This is not the kind of society we subscribe to in this country.

      - BabaroniUS February 8, 2009 8:47PM

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      • popabear
        No,and because

        It is not right it is not the way it should be or it wouldn't be a problem men are suppose to be with women and women with men otherwise it wouldn't be a taboo. But regraurdless of who is right or wrong the day will we will all find out for sure and then it'll be too late for the Gay's of the world I know my son brings a men homei'll disown him and shooot his whatever u call them.

        - popabearUS November 4, 2009 9:45AM

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        • Babaroni
          Keep talking

          Keep talking, popabear, and show the world what bigotry looks like. You're doing a great job of it.

          - BabaroniUS November 4, 2009 9:58AM

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          • popabear
            get ur facts right!!!!

            Irrational suspicion or hatred of a particular group, race , or religion : intolerance, prejudice. See like/dislike.

            This is what bigotry means and I never said I dislike queers,gay's or whatever you like to call them big mouth I just said it wasn't right and I did not approve of there belief and I will condemn it in my household because I can Wanna be gay fine just not in my house and if it isn't wrong why was it hidden from population for so long yes yes I know it goes waY back in history but as far back in histry as it goes so is someone tring to hide it.

            - popabearUS November 4, 2009 11:27AM

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            • Babaroni
              Other than

              Other than threatening to shoot your son 's hypothetical gay partner, you mean? No, that's not hateful. That's not intolerant or prejudiced. Not at all.

              - BabaroniUS November 4, 2009 11:45AM

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              • popabear
                Nope

                No I do not I give everyone a fair chance to prove themselves as people not labels but at the same time detest anyone who screws with my plans and, and my plans are for my son to give me grandchildren ( blood kin ) so anyone who goes against that or any other plans that I have is an enemy and will be dealt as such.

                - popabearUS November 4, 2009 11:58AM

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        • Argenious
          They don't get it...

          Homosexuality is a perversion from the norm. Perhaps we should let pedophiles have their way? Or Necrophiliacs have their way? MANSA claim they love sex with boys, so lets just let all perversions be accepeted! In the name of love of course... that makes it all OK!

          - Argenious November 4, 2009 5:49PM

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          • MrBook
            quite different

            Homosexuality may not be the sexual orientation of the majority, but it is hardly a perversion.

            As to the standard claim about paedophilia and homosexuality ... you are aware that most paedophiles are heterosexual?

            Paedophilia differs from homosexuality in one very important respect... by definition paedophilia requires a non-consenting partner (as minors cannot consent to sexual activity), homosexuality does not share that requirement.

            - MrBookUS November 4, 2009 7:43PM

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            • CitizenZebra
              You are mistaken

              Pedophilia is the abnormal sexual attraction to children , not a sexual act... has nothing to do with consent.

              Normal: In accordance with scientific laws; Conforming with or constituting a norm or standard or level or type or social norm; not abnormal, et al...

              Abnormal: Not normal; not typical or usual or regular or conforming to a norm; not conforming to the natural course of...

              Homosexuality and pedophilia are abnormal sexual behaviours.

              You need a refresher course in Human Sexuality 101.

              - CitizenZebraUS November 4, 2009 8:29PM

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              • popabear
                Thanks

                I really had no idea what the hell that other person was going on about but you cleared it up perfectly thanks for enlighting me.

                - popabearUS November 5, 2009 11:14AM

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              • MrBook
                laws?

                "Pedophilia is the abnormal sexual attraction to children , not a sexual act... has nothing to do with consent."

                We are not talking about those who just think, but those who are putting their desires into action.

                Homosexuality does not violate any scientific laws, but with lets look at some other things that are unnatural... Blue eyes are abnormal, left handedness is abnormal, living in Ohio is abnormal, liking Carolina style BBQ is abnormal, having a PhD is abnormal.

                By defining abnormal as 'something that deviates from the statistical norm' it expands to encompass a huge range of human activities... losing it's negative connotation.

                - MrBookUS November 5, 2009 6:46PM

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            • Argenious
              wrong

              Pay particular attention to CZ's explanation, he is absolutely correct.

              - Argenious November 4, 2009 8:32PM

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        • Argenious
          The subjects of sexual deviancy...

          always have an argument that it is OK, normal, acceptable etc. Probably the most significant cause for the aversion to homosexuality are displays like "Gay Pride", the parades on the streets of Frisco where radical nudity and simulated sex acts by homosexuals are publicly displayed.

          - Argenious November 5, 2009 7:58AM

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