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OPINION: Miss CA and Perez Hilton Show Why America is in Trouble
Manipulation in American
It is very, very difficult for me to believe that Carrie Prejean is being condemned for being "real" Isn't that what having "real" character means or have we forgotten the meaning of that as well? Congratulations to Carrie for voicing her belief and taking a stand on it. Does opposing same-sex relationships mean we do not care or love those who are in a same-sex relationships? Not at all - what it means is that we stand on what is biblically written. Sin is sin regardless of what our "feelings" tell us - lying, stealing, cheating, etc. What bothers me is the manipulation of God's word. It is bended, twisted and contorted to meet what feels good to us. Wrong is wrong. My question is this: Why would this woman be denied the right to be Ms America because of what she feels to be right (against Mr. Hilton's liking) however, Americans can allow a gay gentleman to take part in the judging? It seem hypocritical that because of "his" hurt feelings - or lack of hearing a response that he wanted to hear" can give him such control over the destiny of this woman's future relating only to this pagent? As a Christian, I know many who are homosexual - does that mean I care less for them - absolutely not!! I guess I am simply weary that wrong is becoming right - and accepted as such.
- cat007
April 22, 2009 12:54PM
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What ridiculous BS!
Does it mean that we don't love or care about them? No! We just think they're dirty sinners. Give me a break. You are 100% entitled to your OPINION but standing on God's word is NOT what this is about. It's about the law of the land and the law currently discriminates against the very same sex couples that you "care" about. Do you "care" about them enough to give them the same LEGAL rights as other Americans?
As far as whether she shouldn't win "just because of "his" hurt feelings, as if he is the ONLY homosexual in this country. It's called Mss AMERICA, meaning representing the ENTIRE country, not just the right wing , republican, christian conservatives, that's not the same contest. While I think Perez Hilton is over the top he is entitled to his opinion as much as Miss California, in fact maybe even more since as a gay man who's rights are being denied her answers did not JUST offend his feelings. His opinion about gay marriage does nothing to impact Miss California's world but her opinion does do something to affect his. It's always easy to stand on your side of things because you already have your rights and you stand so righteous in your 2000 year old beliefs yet when a group of your fellow man beg for their rights for their freedom to LOVE who they choose, you deny them. Just what Jesus would do right? If you want to preach about Carrie's "character" for standing by her beliefs then why wouldn't you for Perez Hilton for standing for his rights?
- iggyboo5
April 22, 2009 7:22PM
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from a naturally dirty sinner
First: I am not at all afraid of homosexuals, so no one can label me as "homophobic". In fact, I find many homosexuals, especially in the entertainment world, to be happy, amusing people. Secondly, I can't for the life of me see why or how gay marriage would in any way affect my family or anybody's family; I guess nobody smart has fully explained it to me. And thirdly, as a Christian, I cannot be "tolerant" of sin , and the practice of homosexuality is a sin.
Waitaminit! What the...? What's this guy talking about? I'm talking about two points that Christians should be making in this whole debate, and aren't. One: I AM A DIRTY SINNER! That is, by definition, what a Christian is. I am a dirty sinner forgiven by the grace of the Lord, but there it is just the same; absent that grace, I have no right to even sully this planet with my presence. So, yes, I care...about homosexuals, about addicts, about pedophiles, about murderers, about liars and cheaters and adulterers and the greedy and selfish and everybody else who is caught up in this disaster of being human, but WITHOUT demanding legal protection and social " tolerance " for all these "lifestyles."
Which brings me to the second point: I firmly believe that homosexuals are naturally born that way, and have no choice; who would choose such vilification (except Christians, of course, and I actually believe that Christ chose me, not the other way around). PEOPLE: THAT IS EXACTLY THE PROBLEM! Human beings are fallen creatures, living in a world we sucked down into the muck with us when we fell. When you choose against God, every imaginable abomination becomes perfectly natural. But we use law and culture and custom and society to restrain our "natural" tendency to exploit, prey upon, harm one another, and generally shake the fist of defiance in the face of a holy God -- not that these restraints are perfect, but because that's what God in his mercy left to us. I feel for homosexuals, and am horrified by their plight of existing in a world in which their (fallen) natural expression of sexuality and intimacy is wrong...but that is, in fact, the world in which we live, created by Adam, the federal head of our sinful race (and if YOU are SURE that, in his place, you would have chosen God and the lonely, narrow, hard road of holiness rather than the self-indulgence of sin, including homosexuality--well, I respectfully submit that you have another think coming).
I am perfectly aware of the "argument" that will be used against me: "That's your opinion! Get your nose out of your Bible and look around you! You've been infected with the meme of Christianity! Unclean! AAUUUGGGGGHH!" So be it. I am merely a witness to what God has said and done in my life. If I testify that I can see a range of the spectrum that you cannot, don't automatically assume that it is because I am blind. I am expressing my opinion, as Miss California did--when asked to. As for what Jesus would do, he will do what he has always done: Love--and forgive upon sincere repentance and desire to follow him, no matter what your sin was, no matter how deeply you thirst to fall back into it. Peace.
- Stranger in a Strange Land
April 24, 2009 11:41AM
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Not everyone wants to be saved by you
Nor does everyone want you making laws based on your views. I know you'll keep trying and I appreciate the candor with which you wrote your comment, I even respect it. Just know that this is a battle you will never win.
As to your statement: I have no right to even sully this planet with my presence.
I am really sorry to hear that you feel that way. That doesn't sound like a way to enjoy the gift of life that God has given you, but we all CHOOSE to live in our own ways. I for one don't think you should have to apologize or beg for forgiveness for existing in your natural state. I don't buy the guilt, you can keep that.
To your other point:
(and if YOU are SURE that, in his place, you would have chosen God and the lonely, narrow, hard road of holiness rather than the self-indulgence of sin, including homosexuality --well, I respectfully submit that you have another think coming)
It's cute that you are SURE of your beliefs because many of my beliefs have been tested by the scientific method recently, while as yours, no offense are left over from a book written between 1500 and 2000 years ago. Are there any other sources of information from that long ago that you trust this deeply? Or is it perhaps that you are just a little too scared to question the things you've been taught. I may have another thing coming but I live my life unapologetically and as one who tries to make the world a better place and make those around me happy, giving love to as many as I can. Maybe I'll be judged for that. Nothing you are saying is actually, IN FACT, as you wrote. It is in your belief. What makes you SO SURE that yours are the correct ones out of all that are out there?
And finally,
"Which brings me to the second point: I firmly believe that homosexuals are naturally born that way, and have no choice"
If they have no choice then that is God's perfect creation. That is his plan don't question it, right? The good old fashioned Christian way, unquestioning and without thought. What are your thoughts on Evolution...given any thought to that?
- iggyboo5
April 26, 2009 9:42PM
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