Use Behavior Charts With Young Children

Very young children can’t fathom the concept of doing something for its inherent value the way an older child can. Thus, a behavior chart works well for this age group, as it allows them to control their own behavior rather than be yelled at all the time when they do something wrong. Each time the child does what he’s supposed to do – say, getting dressed when it’s time to do so – he gives himself a star (or a check, or whatever). After so many stars, he gets a reward. It’s still the concept of rules and consequences – only it’s turned on its head. It allows you to catch your child being good.