You have probably heard the expression, "Spare the rod, spoil the child." Do you agree with it? Perhaps you were spanked as a kid. Was it appropriate? Some people see spanking as an outdated method of punishment or even child abuse, while others view a swat on the bottom as a parent's prerogative. Where do we draw the line when it comes to disciplining our children?
But, like I said, this argument has devolved into a shouting match between two equally absurd, ill-informed, ill-gotten points of view. Is there "always an alternative" to spanking? Well, of course there is! The question begged is "Will the supposed alternative be as effective, in the situation in question, as a spanking?" The answer may be yes or no. I believe that there are times with certain children that a spanking is the most effective response to misbehavior. Adults have a responsibility to help children control misbehavior. That requires, in any given situation, the most effective disciplinary response available. Sometimes, I contend, that's a spanking. But all spankings are not equal. There are spankings that accomp lish something, and some that do not. Unfortunately, most parents do not accomplish anything when they spank, as evidenced by the FACT that most parents who spank say they spank for the same offenses over and over again. The problem with spankings, therefore, is the manner in which they are delivered, not spankings per se.
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